>>264771159>>264770709>>264772733>>264770576That is where I perceive the issue. Most women (at least most who have fathers in the picture) aren’t attracted to toxicity and asshole behaviour, but rather to the capacity to be authentic and open with how you feel. Human being are authentically violent, loving, a little insane and everything in between. We live in an age of hypertrophied super-egos, we are a society of children who listened to their parents and in this age it is easier than ever to uphold those rules. The issue is two-headed; you can never escape the scrutiny of “parents” unless you decide to be an outlaw, and aren’t led to incorporate these rules we are taught as children into our lives mindfully and critically. We are taught to be nice and do not steal but we are not taught why. This creates a dogmatic rule that suppresses any sort of authentic aggressive impulsivity.
These women are attracted to these men because these men represent a clean break from this indoctrinated society. These guys represent individuality in an age of collectivism and the ability to be mean in the age of nice. They usually aren’t smart enough to realise that a good partner can do both (partially because you get used to the constant niceness from society and others so you don’t miss it in your relationship - at least in the beginning) and get a bitter realisation that the asshole she likes because he is different from every single “cookie cutter nice guy good day madam faggot” this society keeps producing, the asshole is actually an asshole and doesn’t usually control his behaviour more than an average nice guy, he just happens to fall on the other part of the spectrum.
You should aim to become a complete human being, capable of violence and hurting, but having that informed with good morals and life philosophy. Have faith in humans. Then you will be at your most attractive.
>>264763912Exactly.